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10 Reasons I Don’t Have a 9-5 Job

January 15, 2015

Ok, I’m getting real on the blog today. This is something I’ve wanted to write about for a long time because as humorous as this post might end up being, the decision to follow my heart and create a non-traditional career path for myself was the best decision I’ve ever made.

I don’t ever want to see someone stuck in a job/relationship/situation/life that they don’t like, so if you relate to any of these signs (or heck, all of them), send me an email gosh darn it and I will help you figure out an alternative career path! Or, better yet, a BLOGGING one. 😉

Other title ideas I toyed with for this post:

“10 Reasons I’m Not Cut Out for the Professional World”

“1,000 Reasons I’m Not Cut Out for the Professional World” (lol, but really)

“Why I’m a Total Weirdo”

“That Alternative Lyfe” (Why I was going to spell life that way is far beyond me, but I suppose you can add that to my list of reasons why I’m not cut out for the professional world)

* Disclamer: I respect people who have 9-5 desk jobs. My friends, my family, my readers. I admire you peeps but the beauty is we are all different, so we have to find what suits our personality & what strikes our fancy! Ya feel me?

Ready?!

1. I like to juggle 1,000 things at once. Yes, I do. This blogging life suits me because my day-to-day changes every single day. One day I will write the day away by working on the blog, the book, answering my emails and responding to comments on social media and that will be it. Other days are much more active where I will take a fitness class first thing in the morning, run home to shower, head to a photo shoot for TBV Apparel, meet someone for lunch, film for my YouTube, go to Malibu for a speaking engagement, try to answer some emails, make some food & take some photos, hop on a call for a collaboration, hop on a plane across the country, etc. Other days are particularly awesome where I get to travel for the blog, take photos and tweet my brains out. No two days are the same, and it rocks. Especially for someone like me who does notttt do well doing the same thing every day.

2. When I don’t have the opportunity to be creative, I get kind of depressed. Anyone who has seen me in a non-creative environment (i.e. a desk job, an airport with flight delays, a long-ass line at the DMV) knows that, slowly but surely, they will watch my demise. I’m a fully functioning adult who knows that things that aren’t enjoyable must be dealt with from time to time, but I do believe I deal with them poorly compared to most people I know. It sucks the energy out of me and my anxiety rises. Alternately, when I feel creatively stimulated & excited, I have energy for days and my brain jumps from one idea to the next. It is much, much easier for me to engage that way.

3. I don’t work well in groups. I am that girl who WILL try to take over the project, who will then resent everyone else for doing none of the work, who will stalk-call them until the work is done, who will cry when the other people do a shitty job, and who might accidentally forget to bring everything important the day of the presentation. It might make you think twice about me, but it’s true! I like to FLY SOLO when I work, so that I know if the work doesn’t get finished it’s on me & only me. It keeps me motivated and creatively engaged.

4. I’m totally fine with weird hours, and totally not fine with regular hours. Sometimes I wake up and have NO motivation to work. So I take a workout class, go for a walk, read, make a phone call, or brainstorm for other fun projects while I wait for those creative or entrepreneurial juices to flow. Other times, I wake up hours before my alarm to leap into my work for the day. I can do that because I work for myself and by myself, but if I was heading into a 9-5 I have a feeling neither of those things would fly.

4.1. As an offshoot of number 4, I have raging insomnia. This means I often work well in the middle of the night and am typically NOT someone you want to surround yourself with first thing in the morning.

5. I sometimes procrastinate hardcore, but I know myself and it always works out. For example, my book deadline is in 3 weeks and I still have a LOT to write. That’s okay. It’s on me, and I know I will get it done. If there were a boss above me (other than my fab agent and publisher), we would have issues.

6. Daydreaming should be my middle name. Sometimes I should be listening but really I am thinking about a baby monkey that I want to adopt, something funny my 2 year old niece said, writing a sentence for my book in my head, rapping Eminem lyrics in my mind… I am a little (a lot) all over the place. When I worked in a 9-5 environment, there were times I missed important information for this reason. I’m a smart cookie, but if I’m uninterested… game over. I’m interested in all things TBB, bloggy, health, lifestyle, etc. and haven’t had that issue in this business yet — and I doubt that I will.

7. I have severe anxiety. It’s not glamorous, but it’s true. Having the ability to take an afternoon workout class or soak in the bathtub and listen to music as a midday work break is an absolute dream come true for me, and this lax schedule has worked wonders for my anxiety. I know we all get overwhelmed & I’m not trying to play up my own issues, but in my personal experience in work life and in general, I do a LOT better when I can take breaks on my own terms and, alternately, dive in headfirst on my own terms.

8. I’m exceptionally social. It’s part of the reason I don’t do well in group work settings. Work, in my mind, is a very solitary thing. I love my TBB Team, but for the most part the work I do on TBB (the writing, the content creating, the brainstorming & blogging) is done by me, myself and I. When I’m around others I like to talk and hang and connect– not work. Also, since I am so social I LOVE to be able to fill part of my week with hanging out with other entrepreneurs, bloggers, health junkies and awesome inspiring people. Because of my non-traditional schedule, I am able to do that quite easily.

9. I’m not bossy… but I’m the boss. Yeah, I stole a line from Beyonce. But it’s true. I’m not the sweet, chill co-worker you may imagine me to be. I get bored & irritable when I’m not creatively stimulated, and after one too many things happening throughout the day that are far beyond my control I turn into a puddle on the floor. A relaxed Jordan is a happy Jordan. A blogging Jordan is a relaxed Jordan– trust me.

10. I’m a straight up freak. In case all of the above didn’t make it clear, I’m one weird mofo. And in this career I get to write, exercise, take photos, travel, connect with people, explore new places, cook/eat, brainstorm, collaborate with people I admire, and much more– now THAT suits this freaky chick just fine.

Also… I am always thinking ahead to the next project (so many fun ideas!!!), taking care of my health is a full-time job (I spend a lot of time at the doctor’s office), I like to travel a LOT even if it’s just home to Sacramento, I am spontaneous as can be and like to be able to decide what I do the day of, I am addicted to social media & have found a way to turn it into a career (I have four Instagram accounts & a new YouTube channel, what up) and SO MANY MORE REASONS. Oh, and I like to plan fun events for my friends to come to, and I can do that when I own my own business. And I can’t stick to lists. 😉

Thoughts?! Are you cut out for the professional world, or something a bit more alternative? Do tell!

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Michele @ paleorunningmomma

I'm a stay at home mom now to 3, so not the same thing, but since having my kids and leaving the professional world I definitely see myself leaning more toward what you describe. I'm very self disciplined and also love being creative, 2 things I felt were lost when I was working 9-5. If it comes down to needing to go back to that world, I will, but I'll first do everything I can to create another path for myself. For being young, it's great that you realize all this about yourself AND were able to have the guts to go for it!
Rachel @ Betty LIVIN

Wow! I have been working in the professional world for 9 years and I fit every reason you list but one! I've stuck with it so long because of money but I've been looking for a way to transition out and this post just gave me more motivation!
Linda @ The Fitty

9-5 Jobs are too restricting--I need some variety and flexibility in my life! That's why I want to work for myself one day.
Cassie

I'm definitely truly not happy in a professional environment which is why I'm working towards getting out and doing my own thing! This post just made me want to do that even more!!
Hayley

Quite simply no! I never imagine myself having a 9-5, when I visualize my future I see myself able to go on a midday bike ride, see my kids to school (ok yes I know that is a while away lol), work hard but on my own schedule. One thing I have discovered in the past year is I am highly motivated when I am working towards my dreams, and while I love to help others when working towards someone else's dream at the sacrifice of my own makes me depressed! I also need location freedom. I want to be able to work from everywhere and anywhere.
danielle

I also can't deal with the repetitive nature of some jobs. My current job is not 9-5, but I do the same thing practically everyday and it drives me crazy. It's absolutely boring! My dream job definitely involves me being able to choose my daily schedule; that is when I am happiest.
Rachel

Sometimes I need to take mid-day baths too!! I have a 9-5 three days a week and they are my worst three days in terms of my mood. I feel so much better when I have the time to work with myself on my schedule and do what I need to do. Taking care of myself sometimes feels like a full-time job.
Hydee

I love this and so many of these attributes describe me as well! I've known for sometime that I'm not meant for Corporate America but it's where I am for now in order to meet my financial obligations. I would love to hear more about how you made the jump to be financially independent!
Nicole

Loved this post! I'm currently trying to leave my job for another one because I am SO unhappy. I can relate to so many of these things - I get bored quickly when I'm not challenged. I hate sitting still ( HATE DESKS .. I feel like I'm letting myself die slowly ). I daydream all the time and am happiest when I'm juggling a million projects. These are, in a way, great things for my industry, but it also always has me wondering - what job would I really be good at? I'm creative, I love writing/reading/painting/designing/interior decor/healthy eating/animals/social change. What do all these things have to do with one another? Blah. Hopefully one day I'll figure it out and find where I fit.
Emily

I <3 this post!! I, like all those above & you, am NOT a 9 - 5er at heart. I am super fortunate with my current job because I work on my own [albeit for someone else] and am able to enjoy a quick afternoon workout or stop what I&#039m doing and make an uplifting smoothie if I need a boost. And it also allows me to complete online classes in a subject I am truly passionate about [nutrition - woop woop!!]. It&#039s great for now, but it also is giving me a taste of what it&#039s like to, for the most part, work on my own sched and at my own pace - which is exactly why I&#039m dreaming big for the next year or two to work for myself! Thanks for the great read, Jordan - keep up your amazing, hard work!
Christine@ Apple of My Eye

JORDAN. Oh my goodness. I could kiss you for this post. I can't wait to meet up with you and chat about this subject because I as the wee 20-year old baby bird that I am, I am so freaked out for the future and finding my way. I haven't told anyone this, but I've been secretly crossing my fingers that Apple of My Eye will take off more and that I can blog professionally. Such a dream for me and YOU are living it! I can't even begin to explain what a huge inspiration you are to me <3.
Christine@ Apple of My Eye

Also, I just bookmarked this on my computer. Just thought you should know ;)
Lauren

This is a great post! At the risk of sounding boring or lame, I work a 9-5 and am happy with it right now. There are definitely pro's and con's, as there are with more alternative choices... I have less flexibility than others, but I also know I have a consistent paycheck and benefits (ie: great healthcare, a retirement package my agency contributes to, paid time off, etc). I am a therapist working with adolescents, so I sort of have the best of both worlds... No two days are EVER the same with my kids, and I can never really predict how the day will unfold. I get to be creative with my treatment (try doing group therapy with 7 teenagers who would rather be sleeping or at friends houses, I have no choice but to get creative!), but I do get frustrated with the amount of desk work I have (such as progress notes and insurance compliance)... As I said, pro's and con's, but it's what I like for now :)
Miranda

I'd say that we are cut from same cloth! I agree with all of your reasonings for not having a 9-5. You were actually my inspiration for starting my own blog in hopes of utilizing my passion as a job like you have! I'm definitely one who would benefit from an alternative schedule and a more creative, self motivated job! :)
Chelsea Dinen

Well, it is certainly not a coincidence that I'm just now finding you on the day when you post this!! I definitely feel you and love what you said about how we are all different and all need to find what suits us best. As I get older, I realize how important and vital it is for me to have freedom. Honoring my need for that and remaining authentic to what environment I thrive in, well, that means the alternative life is the life for me :)
Christine @ Skinny Fingers

Word for word, this post spoke to me. I'm still currently doing the 9-5 thing, but I'm in the process of moving away from that. Sure, 9-5 is secure, what we're supposed to think we're "supposed" to do, but it's not for everyone. Making a transition like this can be intimidating, and people are quick to give reasons as to why you shouldn't do it. Reading this is like a breath of fresh air, and def something I needed today. Thanks for putting everything I've been thinking/feeling into words! You rock.
bethany littleton

Beautiful beautiful post. I believe I am the same as you. I couldn't handle a 9 to 5 job. It's too much routine which I've gotten out of doing as my ED made me so structured. I don't want to spend my life sat behind a checkout like before. I want to help others and do something that I personally love how I want to. Before my relapse (doing super now) I worked at a checkout watching the clock tick. I then left to start instructing BodyBalance, something that I loved and could control. Guess what job I preferred. I don't want to be doing something unproductive. I want to put my passions to good use. Thank you for this post xxx
Janelle @ Wholly Healthy

I love balancing so many things, too! I get so bored with one task
Catalina

Where is the hidden camera and how long have you been observing me? I am the 60 year old version of you. I breathe to create, need my freedom, have my own schedule and I am "all about the fun!" I am up late because my brain is still actively planning, thinking and creating way into the night and wee morning when it is quiet...when the phone doesn't ring, when the house is asleep, when it is dark and I can focus without as many distractions. I have trouble with the boring, the mundane and repetition. I usually find a better way to do things so I am not good at following direction or being told what to do. But if it exciting and creative and I am allowed to blossom on my own, I can hyper focus for days, live in the moment and be consumed by spirit. I love and keep my friends forever but I don't follow the crowd. I need to have beauty around me, cozy warm surroundings and a room with a view of blue water and green trees to rejuvenate my soul. I love animals and cannot eat them. Sunshine gives me goosebumps and the moon is my nightlight. I want to have it all, see it all and experience it all? Sound familiar?!? :)

Jordan Younger

Catalina, I LOVE THIS. Word for word. Beautiful. I am so inspired. "Sunshine gives me goosebumps and the moon is my nightlight." Yes. Yes. Yes. <3
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Nichole Dunst

Hahaha! OMG I feel like you just posted a dictionary definition of myself. This is exactly why I became a flight attendant rather than going the traditional 9-5 route but even still I crave creativity and entrepreneurship, and I don't really get that from working in the airlines. I just started up my own blog JoieDeVivreBlog.com which was my top resolution for 2015, and I dream that I can one day grow it into something like you've created for yourself. :)
Elsa

Thank you for sharing this! Its great to have role models like you - same generation, same age. I think our generation in general no longer sees a career as safety / security - instead finding meaning and purpose with the job. I love the quote "I want to create a life I dont have to take a vacaction from" it seems that that is where you are at and inspiring others to be too! <3
Bridget McGahen

I'm not cut out for it either, and I totally can empathize with a lot of items on your list. I just have to be here right now because of money. My husband is in school and tuition is expensive AND we live in NYC. So... corporate life is a must for me right now. I'm hoping that once he finishes school, I can quit and pursue blogging/fitness full-time. Maybe by then my blog will have really taken off!
Katie

I think it's great that you have found a pursuit that fits your personality! Reading through these comments, I just want to throw out there that some people, myself included, are extremely motivated, challenged and fulfilled working in what's being called a "desk job". For me, no day is ever the same, the work I perform is anything but routine, and I work for a brand/company whose values align with mine. It's not just about stability/security for me - this is something I WANT to do and that lights me up. I just feel that there are so many posts out there that paint a picture of sad imprisoned people sitting behind computer screens. In reality, it's up to you to find the right career path (whether that's working for someone else or for yourself) that allows you to lead the life you want to live. I get to travel (for business and pleasure), try amazing new restaurants on work trips, go to yoga or take a walk over lunch, use the Vitamix our company bought for us, etc. I agree that no one should feel stuck in a job they hate, but I also believe that entrepreneurship is not the ONLY path to accomplish this. Again, I love that you are doing what fulfills you, and simply wanted to add a different perspective, that many "9-5's" are not what people make them out to be - at least if you find the right one. Thanks, love the blog!
Lauren Paret

Its really awesome you are doing what you love. I am so envious of your lifestyle! I wish i knew how to get to where i wanted to be... Actually i wish i knew what i wanted to do haha
Rae

Working a 9-5 literally drives me crazy. I'm night owl, not a morning person in the least. Truthfully I could do ANY job if I had some control over my hours but unfortunately that's not the case. I wake up every morning dreading going to work, and wanting to quit but I need the money. It's literally made me so miserable, but there aren't really any other opportunities on the horizon right now. I'm tired all the time and by the time the weekend rolls around I'm stuck running around doing errands the whole time because I can't do a lot of them during the week. Nothing is ever going to be absolutely perfect but I just WISH I could find something that I actually enjoy doing. I don't want to be stuck on the career path I'm on and not be able to get out because it's too late.
4rmFAith2Freedom

I love this post! I can totally relate. I have never had a job that held my attention for a long period of time. I would always begin to feel claustrophobic after a while and then find some excuse to fly away. While I respect those that do, I never could get used to the idea of doing the same thing every single day. Boring! People that are comfortable or accepting of what I call torture always made me feel like there was something wrong with me. Now I know that I am not alone! I only wanted to work a 9-5 or go to college because I was fed the idea that it was "Normal" and something that I was supposed to do. I have always loved being able to express myself in different ways by doing many different things that I love. Not wanting to be restricted in any way, I often wondered what will the future hold for me. Especially when looking for a j o b just for the time being and having many short lived jobs on the resume. I would end up having to settle for one that barely allowed me to make ends meet. I'm glad things are changing in this dominating 9-5 world allowing people like myself more opportunities to make a living while having creative outlets. This is my idea of freedom! #Faith2Freedom ;)
Jesus Monsivais

Awesome! glad I found this. I am 30 years old, I have worked half my life in restaurants but I was a musician throughout my early teens to my late 20s. After my band broke up, I turned to music producing for about a year. I had an idea for a music video for a new song I had. The idea was to do an animated video. So I started drawing out the story board. Little by little, I wanted my drawings to come out better considering I wasn't a visual artist. I found myself drawing even when it wasn't for the video. I started buying sketchpads and painting on anything I can get my hands on. The love I had for music was still here. But I had found something else that made me feel alive with a purpose. Long story short, Just a few months ago, I had quit my job at a restaurant downtown Chicago. I use to wake up at 5am, thinking how much I just wanted to stay home and draw and keep getting better. I love to dress sharp, so I use to go to work as if I were going out to a club jaja. But everytime I walked in the door to the restaurant, I hated to have to put on my "work clothes" work as a prep cook, and wash dishes and clean the bathrooms. By the time I got home at 5pm, I didn't have the energy to draw. I woke up one morning, and decided I wasn't going in anymore. It was one of the best decisions I've made in my life. I have evolved so much the results are imponderable. I have a small online business. Work mostly during the night creating and creating. I not only work at home, I work in hotel lobbies, cafe's or outside if it's nice out. Just drawing. I am thankful everysingle day. I am grateful for everything. I never thought this way. I took so much for granted. But It's like a found a new me. Thank you for sharing.
Kar

Thanks for this post! I have a similar lifestyle schedule and have tried the 9-5 making someone else rich and always felt like I was a slave even before I had my baby and could only keep part time gigs where I had a lot of freedom/flexibility. Now that I have a child being able to work like this has been a Godsend.I was able to see her take her first steps, hear her first words etc. and being able to pick her up from school myself should she get ill (without worrying about getting fired) is great. Still some times I envy people that can just do one thing an work a traditional job for years and follow the status quo-and I sometime feel angry when they make digs like"Some of us have to work..." just because I work at home in my yoga togs like I don't do real work!But anyone can live this way if they choose and i think as time goes on more people will be working for themselves non traditionally in some way be it a part time gig or lifestyle.
Vicky

Thank you for writing this, I can really relate. I'm trying to work out at the moment what I want to do- what it isn't, is working for someone else! I'm a complete insomniac, and I definitely have anxiety issues. The latter is something I've tried to do some reading about, but it's difficult to find people who talk openly about it. I really enjoyed reading your thoughts, Vicky
Joe

I'm 10000% there with you so I have to ask: what other options are there?
Charlotte

Hi there, I just want to say I can not stress enough how much I empathise with you and agree. I recently quit a 9-5 job after nine years because I was getting nothing creative out of it. I’m a creative woman. I need that outlet and I was trying to find it through weddings and baby shoots for friends and friends of friends but I was miserable. I loved my colleagues, hence me staying as long as I did but recently I have quit the job, moved to London to try and follow a creative dream. The problem is london is ridiculous. Fast paced, rat racey, full on and I have found myself trapped. After orginally finding work in a digital marketing agency, I am now hating it, sat at my desk 9-6, working through lunches, rewriting home learning brochures and carrying out HR tasks and office management. I hate it. I hate it very much. But it pays the bills. My question to you is as a fellow creative. Should I get out? I think I know deep down this is never going to be the job I left home for. Left my security blanket for. I am not made for this desk life and especially not the rat race desk life. I have enough savings to last me 3 months more in London while I look for something else. I am not getting to flex my creative muscles in this role at all. I am getting paid to write but rewrites and tone changes, not my actual writing. I feel like my soul is slowly dying here. I recently wrote a blog post about this and came across your blog googling ‘I don’t want a 9-5 job’. It really resonated with me. Thank you for any and all advice my lovely. I could do with it. Charlotte Depressed Creative in London.
Stephanie

I loved this blog so much I just interviewed for a 9-5 job I haven't got it yet or I might not at all but it's stressing me so much I think I've made a mistake I can't do 9-5 I get to bored Sitting at a desk for that long, I know I'll just sit there and watch the clock uhhhhh I'm so lost with my life ????????
Lwolfe16

My boyfriend and I both long for freedom from our 9-5 careers. The problem we encounter is how to start with very little financing. We are both extremely hard working and he is so talented. He has been trying to start his own business for 5 years by searching for someone to believe in his ideas and invest. Our negative responses are always the same. Too young. Not being able to show proof of income from the business (because we need the financing to begin). So my question is how do we start? Take out a loan? Keep trying for investments? We are passionate about seeing the world together and not doing the same thing day in and day out. I would love to blog. I love shopping for clothes bargains. I have many passions but do not have a direction. How did you start?!

Paula Clarke

What you need is an Angel Investor - there are some sites to help you find them I think. Good luck!

Raquel

This article is great! I'm so grateful that I came across it at all. I agree with each and every point you brought up! Seriously. There isn't one that DOESN'T sound like me to the letter. I am 27 and have been out of college for what will be 3 years now this May and haven't been able to find a job (that I enjoy). Every job out there is fully corporate and fully a pain in my a**. I keep seeing everyone around me getting married, having kids, getting their first home, and settling into their careers (obviously not all in that exact order). Yet, here I am... I don't have any desire to have a so-called 'normal' life. I want something out of the ordinary. Always have. Always will. Thank you for this! It helped to open my eyes and confirm that there are others out there who feel the same and who are actively battling against the corporate life. Woo!
Priya Modi

Hey Jordan! I admire you for living the dream. I also feel that I am not made for this professional world or anything related to the corporate environment. In many ways, it sucks the energy out of me--which is mentally not healthy. So, when I was working in the in the 9-to-5 environment, I knew it was not for me. So now I'm doing writing internships and have recently started a blog on WordPress (nothing is published just yet) that supports me financially as well. Do you have any suggestions on how/where to start with blogging?
Jessica R.

I loved your post. I almost wanted to jump to te comment section before I even got to number 5! I totally feel you and I'm an Interior Design graduate with tons of creative ideas floating around! But I need help figuring out how to be my own boss and do all these awesome things including blogging! Help me to understand how you started and what I can do to keep my life exciting and start up my own thing with all my social and creative skills! With love, Jessica
Shelli

Hi, Please help me see alternatives to a 9-5 as you have. I am quitting my job today, can't do it anymore but want to make sure I have a secure back up plan. Thanks,
Shelli

Hi Jordan, Please help me see alternatives to a 9-5 as you have. Feels like I've stopped living a while ago... I am quitting my job today, can't do it anymore but want to make sure I have a secure back up plan. Thanks,

Admin

Hi Shelli! I would love to help you. I am so excited because I am working on an eBook that will share the art of building a blog and starting to work for yourself / become your own boss -- the preorder link is https://gum.co/TiBLL!! <3 <3 (if you are interested. xoxo)!!

Nicki

Oh gosh....I feel the same way. After working a job within 3 months I'm ready to go. Once, I learn the ropes and master my position I am bored. Ughhhh, help!
Liv

I so resonated with this!! Currently at 9-5 (and only as of a couple months) knew from day one it wasn't for me! Ugh- every reason on here is exactly why I can't! In any case, how did you manage to find the courage to do your own thing? Do you ever worry about "security?"
Paula Clarke

It took me the longest time to accept that I'm not cut out for the 9-5 but all of this is true for me too. Thank goodness I finally came to my senses! Thanks for sharing it gave me hope that I'm not the only weirdo out there hah!
IMISCHA

I'M EXACTLY THE SAME WAY. THIS IS WHY I WANNA QUIT MY JOB...AFTER 6 WEEKS.
Sara Louise

Hello! Well, It seems there's many others saying the same thing here, but honestly - I too cannot believe how much I can relate to you..! I am not (and never have been) "cut out" for the professional world and I often feel like massively abnormal failure because of this.. But, I cannot help but feel suffocated by the restrictions and repetition that the regular "9-5" comes with. I wish I was able to do something amazing with my life because I think that if you aren't happy and doing something that you love or believe in then you are not truly living to your full potential. I cannot believe how many others here can relate to how I feel. Refreshing to see I'm among fellow "weirdos" here! Haha
Chichi

I totally relate! I'm the same way - I can't work in a 9-5 job! Chichi chichiwrites.com
Chloe

I can totally get this 100% !! I don't think i can ever work a 9-5 job daily. I would be very irritable if someone made me do it. I say if you can work for yourself do it, or if you can find a job that requires less hours daily then that could also work. there is no weirdness about this. Be your own boss and suit your needs!!